I have often heard that there is nothing more precious than a great daddy-daughter relationship. I have been lucky enough to experience it with my own father and see it daily with my husband and daughter: Everything a father does greatly impacts his daughter’s future. A father’s connection with his daughter influences everything in her life, from self-esteem, to dating, to mental health.
The relationship between a father and his daughter is the foundation for her future relationships with men. If a father respects his daughter, encourages her and nurtures her, she will seek similar treatment in her future husband. This positive relationship serves to boost self-esteem and shows young girls that they are valuable and worthwhile people, which will greatly impact the rest of their lives. The flip side is true as well: if a father ignores his daughter, rebuffs her, or abuses her, she will learn that she is worthless and that this behavior is to be expected from other men as well. In short, everything a father does impacts his daughter’s future.
According to the National PTA, there are several additional benefits for girls that stem from a positive daddy-daughter bond:
- Better sense of self-confidence and self-reliance
- Stronger ability to avoid and resist peer pressure in regard to alcohol abuse, sex, and drugs
- Less chance of teen pregnancy
- Greater academic achievement
- Greater job opportunities
- Less chance of developing eating disorders
- Greater chance of maintaining healthy, non-abusive relationships with men
- Decrease in the likelihood of depression
- Willing to try new things and face challenges
- Able to set long-term goals
Often, fathers are not able to be present in their daughter’s lives around the clock. Luckily, this is not necessary to build a strong bond. All it takes is (drum roll please) an active interest. Setting aside time, no matter how fleeting, to be with your daughter or talk with her is an excellent start. If she knows you are available for her, are making an effort, and are involved in her life in some capacity, she will reap the benefits of your relationship with her, as will you.
